my school didnt have any frats. then when i transferred schools i only had like 2 semesters left.
Ah, well it's never too late, but it's very true that the earlier the better.
I'm not in school, and when I was it was a liberal arts school with 700 kids, no frats, and basically no sports teams. Several of my best friends are in frats and are having really great experiences. In many cases, frats can be an awesome experience for people, a way to meet people and have a support group & group of bros. Having said that, it definitely varies from school to school, because I have friends who have had HORRIBLE experiences with frats. Some of these places are real fucked up, from the degrading super hazing to some frat parties basically being rape-buffets. I know a few girls who have been sexually assaulted at frat parties but again- there is a wiiiiiide range of frats. Yours sounds cool though OP, I'm definitely not shitting on frats in general. Hope you have a great time in yours man, live it up.
OP here, I'm in an ethnic based fraternity, which unlike white frats, the majority of "hazing"/pledging is physical, not alcohol based.
Which means I get gains instead of alcohol poisoning.
Our rival frat is really bad though, forcing pledges to exercise for hours in an unlit room with loud techno music being played for hours....
Shit like that is dumb.
Two years later this shit is more lit than I ever would have thought.